Focus on the good....this is very important for each of us.
Focusing on the good doesn't mean ignoring life's challenges, it means choosing to see the light even when the shadows fall. Each day brings its own mix of joy and struggle, but our mindset has the power to shift how we experience it. When we train our hearts to notice blessings, no matter how small, we build a foundation of gratitude. The more we look for the good, the more it grows. It's not about pretending everything is perfect; it's about holding onto hope and choosing faith over fear.
Tomorrow is one of those days that I must focus on the good. I have not spoken of this, but for a year and half, Sam has been dealing with cirrhosis of the liver. This in non alcoholic cirrhosis also known as NASH. Non-alcoholic steatohepatitis. He has never been a drinker of alcohol. Earlier in March, we saw his liver specialist and he was concerned about Sam's blood levels. One particular test had jumped significantly. Last week he had an MRI done which shows that he now has a big tumor on his liver and it is hepatocellular carcinoma. We are still working through this unexpected news that has caught us a bit off guard.
We will see a radiologist tomorrow and they will go over with us, what path we need to follow to take care of the tumor. Just a couple of weeks ago, I was asking you all to pray for me as I was having my heart procedure. Today, I am asking you to please add Sam to your prayer list, specifically praying for the medical team to be blessed with wisdom and skill to move forward for what is the best treatment for Sam. I also, ask for prayers directly for Sam and for his healing.
You may have wondered why I have been slow posting or haven't been able to comment on your blogs. I am trying to keep up, but have just been a bit overwhelmed. Focus on the Good are the words that I am going to stand by each and every day. Even on those hard days, simply choosing to see the good in all things can shift our perspective. It doesn't erase the struggle, but it gently reminds us that HOPE exists and brighter moments are never too far away..
Shug.
PS....I will add, that my doctor's appointment went very well. I consider my cardiologist to be the Best around. Yesterday, he then told me how thankful he was that he had ordered the angioplasty because, Even the CT scan did not show the blockage on the back of my heart. Without the angioplasty and the doctor being able to see the blocked artery, I most likely would have had a heart attack at some point. I am Praising God !!👐
Oh Shug...I with my husband will pray for your Sam. Your plate is full and no worries that you are not commenting. You need to take care of YOU, and your Sam. Thank you so much for sharing your life and trials, as we are sisters in Christ and can pray for our Mighty God to work His perfect will. We don't know what God will do, but we know what God CAN do, and we pray that He will give you His perfect peace and you face the next few weeks of uncertainity. Loving you dear friend.
ReplyDeleteMy dear friend... what a blessing you are to me. Your Christian witness of faith when in the midst of a trial speaks so much of your love for the Lord. Sam is now in my prayers. I'm rejoicing with you over your cardiologist appointment yesterday. God be praised.
ReplyDeleteYou are a perfect example of someone who has turned their life over to God. Sending prayers for Sam,
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of Sam's diagnosis and I will add him to my prayer list! One grateful day at a time Shug...we can only move forward with hope!
ReplyDeleteI'm thankful for your attitude. Your testimony of faith shines through it. I'm thankful for your cardiology appt and will certainly be praying for Sam.
ReplyDeleteI am thankful that your cardiology appointment went well - you needed to be okay to go through the upcoming time and I know God knew it. You are right in the mist of despair you do have to hope over the despair. They have so many good treatments out there now. I do think they will come up with something for Sam. Let us know. I sure will be praying for him. Hugs
ReplyDeleteOh Shug, I am so sorry to hear this. I said a prayer for Sam, and for all the concerns you mentioned. I do hope he gets the proper care and treatment with all of this. Also, it's so good that you have a good Cardiologist, and that he found what was wrong with you and took care of it swiftly. You are an inspiration in my life with your words of Hope. Hold on tight to that, Shug. May God wrap around you and Sam like a blanket of comfort and love during this difficult time you are facing....with questions and appointments and treatment and healing. I will be thinking about you in the days ahead.
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Oh Shug, I’m shocked and so sad. I know you know that God is with us in our suffering and that He is able to bring about healing in various ways. Sometimes He heals miraculously, sometimes He works through medical professionals and treatments, and sometimes He provides comfort and strength to endure. I will pray for God's healing for Sam. I pray for comfort, peace, and strength for Sam and you during this difficult time.
ReplyDeletePrayers and much love. ❤️
ReplyDeleteOh Shug, I am so sorry! You KNOW I will be praying for Sam! Of course the first thing I did was go to Google and do some research on this. There are lots of different treatments, including surgery, heat and cold, immunotherapy, drugs, etc. And for each specialist, that doctor thinks his treatment is the best. So you will have choices to make. I am praying for discernment! We faced something similar when Phil had prostate cancer. He changed the plan at the very last moment because of signs we believe were from God. And I know that you will get signs along the way for your choices! God will be with you each step of the way! And so will I, please keep me posted.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry to hear this. Prayers are coming your way for Sam, you and all the doctors. Keeping a positive attitude can help so much in getting through the rough times.
ReplyDeleteShug, we have recently been through a tough time with David's health and it can be so stressful. I have leaned in to the Lord so much over the last 6 months and he's held us very close. I pray that God's peace will cover both of you as you seek answers and direction. I pray for healing over Sam and that he will feel God's presence at every turn.
ReplyDeleteLifting you and your husband up in prayer right now. May the Lord give wisdom and guidance to his doctors and all those attending him. Praying for a healing treatment plan. May God give you strength to handle all that needs to be taken care of each day. Yes, focusing on the good will help you as you face uncertain days ahead, but know that God is always with you both, and He will never leave you nor forsake you. (((HUGS))) And please don't worry about commenting,, etc. to us. We would love to keep up with what's going on in your lives as you are able to post, but don't worry about having to stay up with the rest of us. We totally understand, and your family comes first always.
ReplyDeleteWhat an unpleasant shock, on top of your personal health problems. You are adopting the right attitude and it will carry you through.
ReplyDeletePraises and prayers requests. They so often go together. I am saying a prayer for you and for Sam today!
ReplyDeleteOh Shug. I'm sorry to read about Sam. Sending you both love and huggs. Lots of well-wishes. As for the blogs, they can wait. Not important right now. Take care of yourself. Take care of Sam. Huggs!
ReplyDeleteSam and you are on my heart and in my prayers, Shug. Keep focused on the good, and know how much you are both loved and cherished. Blessings and peace to you always!
ReplyDeleteDear Sweet Friend, Be assured of my prayers for your Sam and you and your family as well. Your faith is beautiful and the strength will help you carry this cross. I will pray for health and peace of mind and heart. Thankful to hear your appointment went well. Hugs.
ReplyDeleteLifting bold prayers right now ... for the both of y'all AND your physicians. Having walked the walk with Tom (twice), I well understand the stress and "what-if's." Your attitude is enviable, but even cheerleaders need a boost now and then. I feel blessed to join those holding you high.
ReplyDeletePrayers for both of you this Easter Week..healing and blessings .
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