This is for sure one of those This and that Monday's. 💛
I failed to mention that I had a wonderful guardian angel show up this year the day before Thanksgiving. She came wearing an apron and delivered a German Chocolate Cake to me.
My sister-in-law (Kay) didn't just bring dessert, she brought so much love disguised as food. While she was busy cooking for her own family, she also cooked for mine. I should tell you, She is a fabulous cook!! Kay walked through my back door with a feast of sweetness: The German Chocolate Cake, Coconut Pies, Orange Salad, and a bowl of Cherry Fluff that looked heavenly.
All of it....every single bite...was exactly what my heart needed. It was all soooo very good.
Last week was rough around here. Driving back and forth to Dallas can really exhaust you...But, Kay stepped right into that gap without being asked. There truly are special people in our lives who make life easier and more bearable, just by being who they are. Kay is definitely one of those people and I am deeply thankful for her.
But, woven into last week, a week of gratitude, there was also some grief. MY dear friend Joyce...(one of the ladies that I have lunch with once a month, and just got back from a trip to Branson with).....Her husband passed away last Wednesday...the day before Thanksgiving. He had been battling pneumonia, and then his organs suddenly shut down. He passed away and this was a shocker to all of us. My heart is heavy for her. If you think of her, please whisper her name in prayer.
And somewhere in between all the emotion, the weather finally remembered it was supposed to be November and now December. Our highs today will be in the low 40's. For many of you up North, this probably sounds like short sleeves and errand weather. But here? I am living my best cozy-girl life. lol.
Of course, with cooler air blowing through, Cyber Monday also breezed in. Are you shopping today? I don't think I will... I won't be clicking those keys today.
And speaking of clicking...if you're one of my blogging friends, please hear my cry of distress:
As I posted last evening, I lost ALL of my addresses and email addresses. Every single one. Poof..GONE!! I'm working on my Christmas card list and would love for you to send me your address again. This time I will record them in my book and I promise I will guard them like crown jewels. For those who have already sent them, big thank you's!!
"Sometimes the simplest acts of kindness become the brightest lights in the hardest weeks."
As I move into the heart of this holiday season, I want to slow down enough to see the gentle gifts around me. The people who show up, the ones who ease my load, the ones who listen, and the ones who love me through whatever the day may bring. Gratitude and grief may share the same space right now, but both are held safely in God's hands.
There are so many beautiful moments just waiting to be noticed and I pray for a steady heart to reach out to others who need to be loved.
I'll leave you with a few pictures of my throw pillows. These make me happy and are one of life's tiny joys.
Shug....


Kay is a good reminder for all of us - just step in and do it. What a blessing. I'm so sorry about your friends husband. Prayers for all of them.
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so sorry to hear about your friend. Prayers for her and her family and friends. its important to have things in our homes that give us joy to look at them. cute pillows. when I create a document in computer, I print out a copy and I have a folder that says What if the power fails... I keep it all in there. I also save it on external drives for just in case. I am a little shamed to say, I have 4 sheets of paper, that when I get a new address I cut the return address off the envelope and tape it on the paper. I have a collage of addresses folded in half in the drawer with my address book because I am to lazy to copy them in the book
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ReplyDeleteSo very sorry to hear about your friend Joyce. Prayers sent for her and all of her family - for strength and peace. And prayers for you too through all you folks contend with as well. Your SIL sounds like a Doll. God bless her too! :) We have about a foot of snow here in the northwoods now- so winter has definitely arrived to stay. I love all of your adorable Christmas pillows. SO cute! Blessings on your week ahead. xoxo
I am so sorry that Sam is still suffering and hope his cough eases. Coughing is very tiring.
ReplyDeleteSo sad for your friend, too - it always seems so much harder around holidays when everyone seems to be having a good time.
I am praying for Joyce and her family; also for you and Sam and for your family Shug.
ReplyDeleteI like those Christmassy pillows. very cheerful indeed.
It's very cold here all of a sudden; it's really winter.
God bless you all.
Prayers for Joyce and her family, and for you, Sam, and the rest of your family. I love those throw pillows! Little joys help us carry on. Much love.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for Joyce. How awful and startling. I will remember her in my prayers. My grandmother died at Thanksgiving, makes it so hard every year. And you know that my favorite pillows are the gnomes and Christmas trees!
ReplyDeleteI am sending hugs and prayers for Joyce.
ReplyDeleteKay sounds like my friend Lori. She is always there for me. She has been an angel to me during all my son's deployments, making sure I know she is praying for me and the troops.
I love the pillows.
Carla
There definitely are the highs and lows during the holidays.
ReplyDeletePrayers for your friend Joyce and the peace of the Lord surrounding her at this difficult time.
Prayers for you and Sam too. Comfort ...
Its so wonderful to have a dear friend who will just jump into the fray and get things done.
Love you my dear and happy snuggling on this chilly day.
Sue
May God richly bless your thoughtful friend, Kay, and may He surround Joyce with His arms of comfort as she grieves her unexpected loss of her husband. Yes, I will certainly put her on my prayer list. Loved the cheerful holiday pillows, Shug. They put a smile on my face. Blessings!
ReplyDelete"Gratitude and grief may share the same space right now, but both are held safely in God's hands."
ReplyDeleteLove this.
God bless Kay for her being "her" and thinking of your family so sweetly. My heart goes out to Joyce...what a shock! I will email you my address. xx
ReplyDeleteIt's a hard time of the year to deal with illness or death. Prayers for all.
ReplyDeleteOh my goodness, both gratitude and grief laid at your doorstep. Creamed with exhaustion, what a recipe ... one best given over to our Lord.
ReplyDeleteI definitely said a prayer for Joyce for peace now and tomorrow. And tomorrow after that.
KAY is awesome. I will pray for Joyce - I know that must have been a shock and not a good time. Love your pillows.
ReplyDeleteAmen to ""Sometimes the simplest acts of kindness become the brightest lights in the hardest weeks." So true.
ReplyDeleteKay sounds like a very special person--and a great baker as well..
Praying for peace and comfort for Joyce.
Love your pillows--especiall the moose ad the snowman.
What a nice thing for Kay to do. So sorry to hear about your friends husband. I'll send up a prayer for her.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful to have such a wonderful thoughtful sister in law!! What a blessing. So sorry about Joyce's husband. Each day is a gift!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear about Joyce's husband. A hard thing to go through, but during the holidays is especially difficult. I am glad you have Kay in your life. She sounds like a special person.
ReplyDeletePrayers for your friend and her family. May God hold them through this time of shock and grief. And the world needs more Kays. I am going to remember what she did, and the next time I know someone who could use help, I am nit going to ask. I will simply do. Happy December, my friend. : )
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DeleteOh Shug, I'm so sorry to hear about your friend's husband. Whispering a prayer for her right now. She will need lots of comfort during this time of sorrow. Your throw pillows are so cute. And that first one looks like a reindeer, and I like the red. It's delightful. Love the snowman too. I'm glad to hear it's gotten cooler there for you, and now you can enjoy this season with warm cups of cocoa and hot coffee. Your sister-in-law was amazing bringing all those desserts. And your favorite, German Chocolate Cake! Sorry you lost all your addresses. No problem, I'll e-mail you mine tonight.
ReplyDeleteI hope you have a merry and bright week, Shug.
~Sheri
Dear Shug, I am so sorry about your friend's husband passing.
ReplyDeleteYour Christmas 🎄 pillows are beautiful and festive.
Shug, I'm praying for Joyce. What a tragic way to start the holidays. I'm so sorry for the loss of your friend. And your angel Kay...wow! What a blessing to have someone to show up just when we need it. So many are having hard times. If we can bring desserts and bless them, let's all be a "Kay" and do it! I hope you get some rest this week. Take care of yourself my friend. Much love and hugs!
ReplyDeleteHello Shug....I LOVE your pillows. Also, love your blog headers. Do you do those yourself? (hOW I would LOVE to be able to do headers.) I have continued to steadily pray for you and your "forever love" and will continue to do so. The holidays are wonderful but they have their stressors, too, and dealing with health issues are stressful, too. You are in my thoughts and prayers, my friend. Susan
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