The older I get, the more I understand that not everything is meant to happen when I want it to. Life has a gentle (and sometimes not-so-gentle) way of teaching patience....and purpose.
I've come to realize that some delays are not roadblocks....they are divine pauses. They're moments where God whispers, "Not yet, my child...I'm still preparing the way." I will be first to admit that when a delay happens or a roadblock pops up, I have a tendency to become frustrated. I suppose this is just human nature.
It is... so easy to get frustrated when plans don't unfold the way we hoped. We pray, we plan, we push forward, and then suddenly, everything seems to slow down or stop. But, maybe, just maybe, that delay is protecting us from something we can't yet see. Or perhaps it's giving us time to grow into the person who will be ready for what ever is coming next.
And those detours? Oh, how they test us, don't they? We think we are heading one way, and suddenly life reroutes us in an entirely different direction. Many times, I have looked back to see that those detours were not mistakes. They were directions! They guided me to new blessings, unexpected friendships and a much deeper faith.
There is a quiet peace that comes when we stop fighting the timing of things and start trusting the process. We begin to understand that every closed door, every delay, and every reroute has meaning woven into it. It's not that we are off track, we are simply being divinely redirected. I want to always remember that sometimes God's "not yet" simply means, "I have something more beautiful in mind."
🌻 Keep smiling through the detours, friends! Sometimes the scenic route is where the sweetest moments bloom.
Love,
Shug 💛





Thinking of you! Take care. You have an excellent mind set and a strong faith.
ReplyDeleteThank you Jenn. My kiddos keep me grounded and so does my Faith.
DeleteThank you for the words of wisdom. I am wrestling with a roadblock right now.
ReplyDeletePrayers for you Kathy for whatever roadblock you are facing...God is good..
DeleteThis is so good! I hate detours, but you are right - often they turn out to be a blessing.
ReplyDeleteYes they do Mari. We are at one of those detours, but I know God has a plan
DeleteI am loving your cover photo! What a dreamy space. Divine pauses are exactly what they are! The Lord’s plan will always be greater than our own. And in His perfect timing!!
ReplyDeleteYes... The Divine pauses are such blessings that we don't see until afterwards. Have a wonderful Tuesday..
DeleteShug, finding your blog has really been a blessing for me.
ReplyDeletethank you so very much...I hope I always deliver messages of love and kindness.
DeleteYes you are so right - God is sovereign and in complete control and that is comforting. It’s really simple. Trust and Obey and God will do the rest. Meanwhile enjoy your life, love on your loved ones and practice patience. 🙏🏻
ReplyDeleteI have found the same to be true in my life, Shug. May we all let go and let God, then enjoy the ride to where He takes us. Blessings!
ReplyDeleteA timely post. I am at home today sipping hot chocolate. It is raining and the Netflix fireplace is "warming" my living room. 🩵 I had plans to attend my ladies Bible study, but here I am praying and studying at home instead. Hmmm.
ReplyDeleteYour morning sounds so peaceful Sandi. enjoy it
Delete"Divinely redirected." Shug, you've no idea how much I needed to hear these words. Thank you for being such a Light when darkness surrounds.
ReplyDeleteI'm honored to pray for y'all.
Thankful for your prayers and thankful that the words the Lord laid on my heart were encouraging.
DeleteSometimes we get impatient. I guess we should be more accepting. I have nodules in my lungs from the RA and have a CAT scan once a year. Praying for a good outcome for Sam:)
ReplyDeleteYour comment here is encouraging Connie... When you hear of nodules on the lung, (I) automatically think of the worse. I'm sure glad they keep a watch on yours.
DeleteYour words are so special on here today, Shug. They truly are a blessing to read on this Tuesday morning. They remind me of the Isaiah 55:8-9 verse.......
ReplyDelete“For my thoughts are not your thoughts,
neither are your ways my ways,”
declares the Lord.
“As the heavens are higher than the earth,
so are my ways higher than your ways
and my thoughts than your thoughts."
Sometimes the detours do lead us to beautiful things and wonderful surprises.
~Sheri
Amen Sheri...glad you added the scripture verse.
DeleteI shall keep up the smiling here too! A great reminder.
ReplyDeleteYou are so right, Shug! and I find as I get older, I have more patience. Love this pretty leaf photo!
ReplyDeleteYes, patience and acceptance. Much love and prayers always. Thank you for the updates. ❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
ReplyDeleteTrying to push on through is not always the most sensible thing to do. It is good to be patient.
ReplyDeleteI have found this to be true in my own life. I sometimes feel I am in God's waiting room for a long, long time. It is so hard to be patient. Thank God we have God - right? I will be continuing to pray for you and Sam.
ReplyDeleteSuch thoughtful true words dear Friend. It reminds me of the song about thanking God for unanswered prayers. We may not always get to understand, but in the delays and road blocks and forced patience can be answers we didn't even realize we needed. Patience is a virtue I still work on everyday though! Lol Blessings to you xoxo
ReplyDeleteI really like the thought of Not Delayed, Just Redirected. That can be a Game Changer.
ReplyDeletePraying for you and Sam.
Cling to His promises, they never fail.
Love you my Sweet Friend,
Sue
Being redirected is something that happens in all of our lives. Your attitude is very inspiring, Shug.
ReplyDeleteI don't usually handle those little detours too well to start off with. I eventually adapt and get used to them
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