Friday, November 22, 2024

Happy Friday dear Friends.  

Sam and I had another busy day on Thursday!  

For one thing.....I had to get several things done around the house that I had neglected since being ill the first part of the week.  

✅  Check mark on that!

After lunch, we attended the funeral for the brother of one of our very good friends.  I had not seen Mike in several years, but he was a very good man and a big Cowboy!   It was a wonderful service with beautiful music.  

After the service, we came back home to pick up a few things and then we were out the door, heading over to see Sam's dad at the Memory Care facility.  

The nursing home was hosting a Friends-Giving meal for the residents and their families.  Sam wanted to get there a little early so that he could make sure his dad was all dressed up for the occasion.  




Around 5:00 one of the nurse aids came to get us for the big event.   We all went to the  dining room and listened to a very talented performer as he entertained us with his music.  It was a joy seeing the smiles on the  faces of all the residents,  as they wandered around the room.  


                

Afterwards, we made our way through the line of what I would call a full Thanksgiving Feast.  Dressing, sweet potatoes, mac and cheese, green beans, ham, Turkey, cranberry sauce, rolls and several different kinds of pie to choose from.....this was the feast.  




My Father-in-law's main focus was the Pecan Pie.  

He wasn't interested in the meal itself....only the dessert and the sweet tea.  

I actually met some very nice people as they too were there visiting their loved one and sharing in this awesome celebration.  



Just last week, I wrote a post on the tapestry of my life.  I added to this tapestry through our events on Thursday.  Experiences woven with joy and sorrow, connection and separation.  Whether marking the end of a life well-lived or sharing moments with a loved one facing the realities of aging, life offers a great opportunity to reflect deeply on the meaning of life.  Can you imagine the colors in this tapestry with the sun shining on it??  

These two celebrations that Sam and I attended,  were like contrasting experiences, yet both were profound reminders of life's most essential truths.  

It is as if They were teaching us to value the time we have, cherish the people we love, and to find gratitude in every moment, whether joyous or bittersweet.  Together, these celebrations deepened our understanding of what it means to live a life filled with faith, hope, and love.  In honoring those who have gone before us and those still with us, we are reminded of God's presence in all stages of life.  

Blessings my dear sweet friends...I pray that you have a remarkably great day as well as a weekend full of contentment and joy.  

Shug...




16 comments:

  1. I'm glad you're feeling well enough to be doing things. The time with Sams Dad sounds very special and I appreciate the reminder on truths you shared.

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  2. the perfect start to a week of Thanksgiving, wow on the TG dinner and that tree with lights in the leaves is amazing.. your FIL looks smiling and happy. Daddy was in a nursing home for 10 months and he was only about the sweets. he would eat as much breakfast as they would give him, but lunch and dinner only desert. I told them to feed him what he wanted, he was dying and nothing to be done, Parkinsons had robbed him of his life and if he wanted a candy bar for lunch give it to him. his aid gave him a double breakfast and he had fruit and desert for lunch and a 3 pm snicker bar.

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  3. We enjoyed the many family members of residents when my FIL was at the Veterans Home. There was a community there - residents, family members and staff. I used to enjoy the Christmas party they would have on Christmas morning. We would go over to help with the handing out of gifts. Good memories! I mean, really, where else would we want to be, for those who gave so much?
    I’m glad you are enjoying your visits with Sam’s dad!
    God bless!

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  4. Wow, that is so feast they had. It all looks delicious. Your father in law looks so happy in that picture.

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  5. You have a wonderful appreciation and understanding of the stages of life, and how we need to be giving and care for others. Your strong spiritual strength is an example for all of us!!

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  6. Value the time we have...yes. 💙

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  7. Amen to your sentiments. Andy and I are at the age where we have one foot in the grave and another on a banana peel (one of his favorite sayings) but life is still rich and meaningful. We're doing the best we can to stay healthy and happy so our daughter doesn't have to worry about us. Life is good. ❤️

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  8. That was so cute - your FIL wanting dessert and sweet tea! Cute. You are so right about life being in stages - and we go backwards and forward all the time. We need top appreciate it - wherever we are.

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  9. What a nice gathering at the care facility! Funerals and visits...seems we do more funerals so we have to make time for visits. Sorry about the loss of your friend.

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  10. What a precious expression on your FIL's face! I'm with him ... bring on the pie!
    That memory care facility sounds like it's staffed by genuinely-caring individuals; what a blessing!
    I love your closing sentiments. Being in a mostly caregiving position, I needed to read your wisdom and swallow a big gulp of perspective. Hugs!

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  11. Sam's dad is certainly being looked after with loving care and plentiful food, Shug. So happy when when we can see our dear ones appreciated, no matter what stage of life they may be in. Today, Danny's half-sister was laid to rest. Because of health issues, we couldn't attend as it was in Florida, but oh, what a Christian legacy she left us all. Let us celebrate each day God gives us with thankfulness! Blessings!

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  12. My daughter is director of a local nursing home and they also did the Thanksgiving dinner for the residents and their families. The smiles were golden! Sorry about your friend Mike. Have a wonderful Thanksgiving week!

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  13. Great thoughts, Shug :) We will be visiting my MIL in her facility tomorrow. It's an interesting time of life for all of us. We are surrounded by young life in all our grand babies, and yet we are knee deep in steps of having to make sure my MIL is taken care of, as well. It's a tug-of-war sometimes; battling all the needs of everyone. My husband is a hospice administrator and for many years, he and his staff (and my boys) were the nursing home band :) They would play all the old, classic country songs, Elvis, and old hymns and it was such a joy to watch the faces of the residents as they let their memories go back in time. I wrote a few stories of some of those occasions in one of my books. Your FIL looks very handsome, by the way :)

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  14. Beautiful, thank you for sharing...my work had a beautiful Thanksgiving meal as well, and I think it was safe to say, we all wanted naps, unfort. no napping in a prison, LOL. Have a great day friend.

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  15. I am so thankful I found you here, my friend.Your loved one looks so happy and well cared for, and the Thanksgiving Feast was wonderful! I am so happy he enjoyed his pecan pie! Thank you for blessing us with your posts. Have a cozy weekend.

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  16. That was a nice meal that they served at the care facility. Sam's dad has the sweetest smile. Such a beautiful thing of Sam to go early and make sure his dad was dressed for the occasion. Pecan pie is a favorite of mine too. How wonderful that you met some nice and friendly people along the way. That tree photo is gorgeous, and it goes well with your "tapestry of life" post. Have a peaceful Sunday, Shug, and a very good week ahead.

    ~Sheri

    **I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your dear friend.

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