Wednesday, December 3, 2025

Memories and a Hodgepodge.


 

Happy First week of December.

It's our first Hodgepodge for this 12th month of the year.

Joyce asks the questions.

We answer the questions.

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1. What does it mean to have the 'holiday spirit'? On a scale of 1-10 how is yours this year? (10=off the charts, 1=still looking for it)


 I think for a Christian, Holiday Spirit has a very deep spiritual meaning.  Peace comes to my mind...and then there is Renewed Hope, Generosity, and Worship.  The true meaning of what this season is about ...for me....it simply echos Emmanuel.  God with us.... A reminder that light steps into darkness and that hope rises in weary places.  The message of Christ has found a warm place within my heart for sure.   

I also lean into nostalgia during this time of the year, reflecting on the memories of my childhood Christmases.  This brings me much joy.  

On a scale of 1-10.......Mine is totally a 10 +.  I Iove the season and ALL that it brings.  I struggled a bit at first, not wanting to allow myself to enjoy the season (simply because I loss my brother on Christmas day last year). BUT I asked God to help me and I know everything is going to be okay.  





2. What's your favorite character from a (December) holiday-themed movie, book, or TV special? Tell us why. 


I do love Buddy the Elf .....from the Classic illustrated Storybook!!    I mean, his childlike, unfiltered joy is what we all need to feel.  Buddy sees life through a lens that we all lose with age. The message I took away from the movie is that Buddy shows what it looks like to live with a wholehearted presence.  Today, many of us struggle to slow down and we struggle to even look up from our phones.  We are too busy to offer unhurried kindness or to even find love for the simple things in life.  Buddy shows that what is missing in the world is WONDER, sincerity, and LOVE.





3. Do you like gingerbread? Are gingerbread houses part of your holiday tradition? 


You know....at one time in my life, I really did like gingerbread, but my taste buds must have changed.  I do not care for it any longer. 

My family bakes and decorates Christmas cookies together, but we don't include the gingerbread houses in our holiday traditions. 

I love seeing them, but not making them. 




4. Much of our vocabulary is determined by where we live or where we grew up. What say you-

I say.... there is a lot of truth here. 


sprinkles or jimmies? lightning bugs or fireflies? soda or pop? sneakers, trainers, or tennis shoes? sub, hoagie, grinder, or hero?. freeway, highway, or motorway? frosting or icing? sauce or gravy?

Around here...we say sprinkles with a southern accent.  We say lightning bugs and we say coke.  For us, it's tennis shoes.  We also say "do you want to get a SUB sandwich?"  Highways are where we drive and icing is what we put on cakes.  Last but not least, we serve Gravy with our meals.  


5. Share a favorite holiday memory from your childhood. 


Oh goodness...which favorite memory will I share.  For one, our family always loaded up in the car a few weeks before Christmas and we would head out.... down the back country roads in search of the perfect Christmas tree. I'm pretty sure that my dad had already been in search of one, because we always ended up with the most beautiful trees ever.  They were big and stood tall enough to touch the living room ceiling.  These were special times.  We sang Christmas songs on the way to find the tree as well as on our way back home.  A day full of happiness and love.

#two...my grandfather was a huge farmer, and when Christmas time came around, we would go to his house and he always had boxes of apples, oranges, and all kinds of nuts for all of us to fill up a stocking.  This was so fun and way better than a toy or gift could ever be.  I most likely would not be remembering a gift given to me so long ago, but I do remember his delight in making sure we all had fruit and nuts to eat. 




6.  Insert your own random thought here.  

Appreciate every moment you are "in" because it will become a memory!!

It's crazy how ordinary moments turn into the memories we ache for later on.  The car rides, the kitchen chatter.....laughter drifting through the house, holiday seasons.....many of these things slip away and we never think of them as being BIG....  but, one day we will look back and realize those were the things that held us all together.  I'm thinking that the secret is to treat RIGHT NOW like something so very precious, before it does slip away. 


It's a nice day to read hodgepodge answers...

Shug....













28 comments:

  1. What a blessing it was to read your answers today. It encouraged lots of Christmas 'spirit' in me. Perfect answer to #1 and great encouragement in your random thought. I was sorry to read about the earthly loss of your brother on Christmas. May God continue to comfort and give peace in your loss.

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  2. This December I'm trying not to get bogged down in the holiday details but take things one day at a time, focusing on the joy each one brings.

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  3. I really enjoyed your answers so much, although I did not know you last Christmas and did not know about your brother. I am so very sorry. I know the feeling of the loss of a dear one, especially around the holidays. We never get over that, but in time God gives us joy in the memories of what was and we are thankful for those precious memories, and rejoice for those who are now experiencing the beauty and wonder of heaven. I love your memories at your grandpa's farm. Yes, fruit and nuts were always a part of our Christmas stockings too. Those are special memories that kids today do not understand or appreciate, but we know how special that really was. I loved all your answers and feel like I've read a good story. Thank you. Have a Blessed Christmas season with your loved ones.

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  4. I love that you are a 10+ ... I said a 10!! But I should add the +, we started out Advent reading, my husband and I, each night we sit by the Christmas tree and read our advent lesson aloud. It means so much to me.
    I love the memories you shared, especially the one about your grandfather.
    I laughed at your #4... so fun, you southern girl!

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  5. I think that I can see you are definite 10 with Christmas cheer!!:) I pray the Lord gives you an extra measure of peace as you celebrate this year - and remember your brother as well!

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  6. Shug, I enjoyed this so much. It's always a way to get to know you better. I so appreciated your answer to #1. According to your answers for #4 I think I must be a southern girl because all of my answers matched yours! Interesting. xx

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  7. It certainly is the seemingly insignificant moments at the time that can become our favorite memories, Shug. And your joy and cheer shine not just at Christmas, but all throughout the year! Blessings!

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  8. Your words are special about the holiday spirit, Shug. I have always been a "10" with the holiday spirit as well. My favorite time of year. Elf is such a classic movie, and we watch it at least 2 times during the Christmas season. Buddy's character is priceless. Number 4 was really interesting and true. Where we live and how we were raised truly does echo our words. My words are pretty much the same as yours, except I've always said frosting. But icing sounds more elegant haha. I don't do the hodgepodge, cause they are just too long to read, but somehow I mosied on over here to read YOURS.....and got to know you better, Shug. You really are a special one.

    ~Sheri

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  9. I enjoyed reading your answers. I picked "Buddy" too. So sorry about the loss of your brother. ((HUGS)) It's nice that you decorate cookies together. Fun reading your answer for #4. Love the memories from your childhood. That's a good point in your random thought.

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  10. I liked your answers and your memories! My grandpa always went to Florida over Christmas and he would send up a crate of delicious oranges every year. :)
    I thought the language question was fun. It's totally a location thing.

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  11. the fondest memories for me were the books I got for Christmas, I loved to read and read and read and still do. and the memory of each year the laughter that we all waited to make, when mother sat down and tree was done and she said "this is the most beautiful tree we have ever had" every single year

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  12. I think you are right - make the memories now as full of fondness as you can. I do believe that where you are from makes a big difference. I had been looking for Christmas music early - and found a Chicago station. I was born and raised there. I tell you right away I liked the way they talked - not just the accent, but on what they said, how they said it - it felt like home. I talk that way too. I just say what I mean a little faster than others do. lol I don't monkey around.
    So, what happened to Sam's doctor appointment?

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  13. Your memories are so enduring. Having a big family with Grandparents and cousins close by would be so much fun.
    All of my relatives were in the Minnesota area and we out in California, so Christmas was very different but I loved it anyway. My best friend growing up was also an only child and her family and ours always got together for dinner on Christmas Day.
    Mom, Dad and I always had our special traditions even if it was only the 3 of us. First was a very special Christmas Eve dinner, We used to have Lutefisk (being Swedish) but finally came to the conclusion that none of us liked it and it made the house really Stink !!! So it became a laughter memory and we ended up having a yummy roast instead. We opened our gifts on Christmas Eve and I had a stocking on Christmas Day ... fun little do-dads and the traditional orange and nuts too. We carried those themes down through to our 2 boys and they have carried the traditions on with their families. That's what its all about. Celebrating the Hope of the birth of Christ and all of the family fun too.
    Sue

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  14. Treasure every moment. Amen to that! I’m doing that right now, commenting here. ❤️💕❤️💕

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  15. I love your memories of Christmas. It's a special time of year for family, church, caroling, cooking cookies, and the birthday of the King.
    Merry Christmas!

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  16. It's always so much fun to catch these posts and see your answers Shug! Could not agree more about the spiritual connection of the season - treasuring all the moments. And all the nostalgia this time of year brings. Happy December and holiday season to you dear Friend. ❤️💚

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  17. Everyone gets a tangerine (or clementine now) in the bottom of their stocking, just like I did as a child. It was such a treat! I grew up in a church whose name was Emmanuel and it's one of my favorite words this time of year, really all year long. I loved your answer to #1. Have a wonderful day!

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  18. You are so right about living in the present! Sounds like your childhood Christmases were wonderful! I once heard someone comment...why do we drive on parkways, and park on driveways?

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  19. I always look for your Hodgepodge blog on Wednesdays. I was so sorry to read of the news on Sam. I can only imagine the disappointment this must have been for you. However, your peace that can only come from a relationship with the Father is such a testimony, and I know it must be an encouragement to your sweetie. Loved reading your memories and giving a big "YES" to all the Southern phrases. We totally agreed on all of them.

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  20. Dear Shug, it is so important and healthy to live in the moment! Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts and memories, dear friend.

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  21. My holiday spirit is at much lower level than it used to be. It just isn't the same now that my kids are grown.

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  22. Oh Shug, your opening paragraph feels like balm to an old and sometimes jaundiced heart. My father's untimely death -- way back in '81 -- still affects me this time of year. I long for the past but believe it's key that I deliberately focus on the light. Sometimes I have to look a little harder, but it's there!

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  23. I like Christmas just not the commercial part of it! I prefer homemade:) Thanks for the update on Sam and his battle with cancer. Decisions are hard to make but we pray we make the right ones!

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  24. Thank you for the health update. Still praying for you both --- love, hugs, and prayers. ❤️

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  25. Great answers - especially the first one. It's true - appreciate the moment and make memories.
    God bless you and your family.

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  26. My house says jimmys. Or jimmies. Either one. So sorry to read about your brother. Glad to hear that you're allowing yourself some grace to enjoy this year. Big huggs.

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