Yesterday, I spent a few hours in a place where joy felt like sunlight and it was wrapping itself around every heart in the room.
I had the privilege of visiting my niece (Tammy) at the home where she lives. This wasn't just my everyday visit though...it was a very special visit. You may remember me sharing about her in earlier posts, how at a young age she suffered a brain injury, and how life, in it's twist and turns, led her to this Christ-centered community just six miles from my front door.
What a blessing this place has been, not only for her, but for our entire family. It is a haven where adults with mild to moderate intellectual and developmental disabilities are seen, loved and celebrated in big ways. The care is exceptional and the facilities are beautiful. What struck me most yesterday was the heart behind it all. These people (The staff) don't just meet needs....they lift spirits and nourish confidence in the residents. They pour love into everyday life in ways that feels like grace in motion.
Yesterday was definitely one of those grace-filled days. I was invited to a special "Say Yes to the Dress" event. It was an afternoon set aside for the ladies to choose a dress for the upcoming "Night to Shine," which is a prom-style celebration hosted by Tim Tebow. Their big night is scheduled for February 13, 2026, and I will have to tell you that yesterday, the sparkle in the room was already brighter than stunning sequins on satin.
Racks of dresses, all donated by generous young women and ladies from our community, stood waiting like treasures. Lace, glittering silver, pastels, shimmering gowns, it was all there. BUT...the real beauty wasn't hanging on the racks, NO, it was dancing in the smiles of the women trying them on.
And Tam.....
She found one! A gorgeous maroon velvet dress that hugged her beautifully and made her eyes shine so big. I need to take it in (Not me, but the lady that does alterations for me) at the shoulders and hem the length, but that's a simple fix for something that made her feel like royalty. She looked like dignity dressed in velvet.
Every women deserves to feel lovely.
Every women deserves to feel seen.
And yesterday, I watched a room full of them bloom.
If you ever wonder if small acts matter...like making donations, volunteering, showing up, reaching out to help those in need, Please know that they do. Someone's dress became Tammy's confidence. Someone's kindness became a room full of laughter and happiness.
I left that home smiling and very grateful. I am so excited for these young ladies (and the men) who will experience a "Night to Shine."
Loves,
Shug
It is the perfect dress for her and for Feb. her smile is radiant as is she. So beautiful both her and the dress. Also beautiful are the people who care enough to donate the dresses.
ReplyDeleteOur community is so big at supporting this place.
DeleteTammy chose the most beautiful dress, Shug. It does look like it was made for her and she for it. Hope you will share photos of her in it once it's altered. Blessings!
ReplyDeleteShe really did Martha...it looks so sweet on her. I will show the pictures after it is altered. I think I even want to have some pictures of her made in it at the rose garden near us.
DeleteShug - this is such a heart warming post! I love that they do this and the dress is perfect for Tammy. Her smile is awesome!
ReplyDeleteWe are so very Blessed for Tammy to have such a great Community to live in. I wish I could share the facilities on here (against the rules) but it is such a beautiful place to live...they have their own Big chapel, a candle shop, a huge center for hosting events (state of the art) and classrooms. Each resident has their own room which is decorated the way they choose to decorate it.
DeleteI hope Tammy will enjoy the build-up to her big night as much as the event itself.
ReplyDeleteThe residents are so excited..gives them something big to look forward too
DeleteThank you for sharing Tammy and her dress with us. I love this, and I remember all the fun she had at last year's event. This is truly a blessing.
ReplyDeleteAnd an answer about our snow, it will last until spring, usually April. One year we had snow piles until May 18th, our youngest son's birthday.
It is snowing today. :-) We already have another inch!
Thank you Carla. This is such an awesome event. That is a lot of snow..I would love to have just 1 full week of the white fluffy stuff. I'm sure it gets old after a while.....so does our Summer heat.
DeleteWhat a heartwarming post. Thank you! ❤️
ReplyDeleteShug, you brought tears to my eyes. The Night to Shine is such a wonderful thing. I have helped serve dinner to the wonderful people that attended a special night very similar to Tim Tebows. I know I was blessed even more than those I served.
ReplyDeleteTammy's dress is lovely and you can see how much it affected her. Royalty for sure.
Hugs
Sue
How wonderful! Sadly, places like this seem to be so rare. But it is so wonderful that she is there, and so close to you. It really is a God given thing. I hope you post again at the prom!
ReplyDeleteI loved this. I worked with the mildly mentally handicap children (teenagers) for years. I love them. I am glad she is in such a GREAT place. IT is always a worry for parents where they will go.
ReplyDeleteShe is beautiful and her dress is gorgeous. I know she will have a fantastic time.
How beautiful! I literally have tears in my eyes, knowing that such a place exists. Velvet has long been one of my favorite fabrics and Tammy is rocking it. I can't wait to learn more about her Night to Shine!
ReplyDeleteTammy looks lovely in her new velvet dress. Velvet is one of the prettiest fabrics. I like the little brooch in the center. So good of the community to donate all of these wonderful dresses. They will be appreciate by many, and make it a special night for them to always remember. The pink background with the balloons and snowflakes is pretty too.
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Tammy looks wonderful. This event is very heartwarming and I am glad to see/read that she is having meaningful experiences. P.S. - your most recent comment did appear on my post. I don't know why blogger acts up like that. I have had the same trouble commenting. *sigh*
ReplyDeleteTammy looks beautiful in the dress. Her face is radiant and her eyes sparkle. What a blessing this home must be to your community. Thank you for sharing with us about it.
ReplyDeleteI love how much they care for everyone and the YES TO THE DRESS is a super duper fun idea. Love that she lives so close to you. Very much a blessing in many ways.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful community and event.
ReplyDeleteTammy looks so beautiful in that dress.
How wonderful! What a lovely gown! Tammy looks beautiful!
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful post I volunteer at a day facility for differently abled adults and have seen firsthand the impact and excitement of A Night to Shine. I also heard Tim Tebow speak recently and heard him say that night is his favorite night of the year.
ReplyDeleteSo glad you were able to be part of the experience. It is truly wonderful and your niece looks beautiful in that dress. Anne in the kitchen
Thank you so much, Shug, for this wonderful heart-warming story. Truly wonderful. Many thanx.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you and your family always.
What a wonderful thing to do. She looks beautiful in that dress. My daughter in law sponsered a free prom dress giveaway this year for girls in the area who couldn't afford to buy a prom dress. Amazing what a dress can do for a girls self esteem
ReplyDeleteWhat a heartwarming story. I almost cried reading it. What a wonderful event and what a wonderful place. It is rare to find such a loving place when it comes to caretaking.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful...this just makes me smile, thanks Shug. Wishing you a lovely day.
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